What to Expect if Accused of Inappropriate Comments or Conduct at Work in the Military
Gonzalez & Waddington, Attorneys at Law represent service members worldwide facing allegations of inappropriate comments, gestures, or conduct in the workplace. In the military, even a single off-color remark or joke can trigger an EO complaint, command investigation, Article 15/NJP, or administrative separation. This guide explains the process, potential outcomes, and how to protect your rights if you’re accused.
The First Step: Receiving the Allegation
- EO Complaint: A fellow service member files a complaint with the Equal Opportunity office, leading to an administrative inquiry.
- Command-Directed Investigation (CDI): Your commander orders an investigation into workplace conduct.
- OSI/CID/NCIS/CGIS Referral: If conduct is alleged to cross into UCMJ offenses, law enforcement agents may investigate.
- No-contact orders: Command may issue restrictions separating you from the complainant during the investigation.
The Investigation Process
- Notice: You are informed you are the subject of an EO complaint or CDI.
- Interviews: Witnesses and the accuser are interviewed. You may be asked for a statement—don’t speak without counsel.
- Evidence collection: Investigators review emails, texts, group chat logs, and workplace messages.
- Report: The investigating officer or EO rep submits findings to the command.
- Command action: Outcomes can range from counseling to reprimands, NJP, or referral to a court-martial.

Possible Consequences
- Counseling/Training: Often imposed for less severe findings.
- Letter of Reprimand (LOR/GOMOR): Filed locally or permanently; can derail promotions.
- Article 15/NJP: Reduction in rank, forfeitures, restrictions, or extra duty.
- Administrative Separation Board: May be initiated for repeated or “serious” inappropriate conduct.
- Court-Martial: Rare, but possible if conduct crosses into Article 92, 93, 117, 134, or 120c UCMJ territory.
Defense Strategies
- Context: Show the environment (unit banter, joking culture, no intent to harass).
- Boundary compliance: Prove you stopped immediately when told conduct was unwelcome.
- Bias/motive: Demonstrate that the complaint was retaliatory, exaggerated, or motivated by personal disputes.
- Digital forensics: Demand full message threads, not cherry-picked screenshots.
- Witness testimony: Colleagues can confirm whether comments were misinterpreted or mutual.
- Performance history: Use awards, evaluations, and letters to show good character and professionalism.
Mistakes to Avoid
- Talking to investigators or EO without a lawyer present.
- Apologizing in writing—admissions can be used as evidence.
- Deleting texts or emails, which can be seen as destroying evidence.
- Contacting the accuser, which can be considered retaliation or intimidation.
- Assuming “it’s just EO”—administrative actions can still end your career.
Defense Framework for Workplace Misconduct Allegations
1. Identify context: Was this mutual joking, or an isolated statement? 2. Show boundaries: Did conduct stop once a boundary was set? 3. Present bias/motive: Does the accuser have a reason to exaggerate? 4. Provide digital completeness: Produce full chat logs with context. 5. Highlight professionalism: Use evaluations and awards to show integrity.
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FAQs: Accused of Inappropriate Comments or Conduct
Can I really be punished for one joke?
Yes. Even a single inappropriate comment can lead to EO findings, counseling, or reprimands if deemed unwelcome.
Is this the same as sexual harassment?
It depends. Some cases stay administrative (EO), while others escalate into harassment or UCMJ charges.
Should I give a statement to EO?
Not without counsel. Statements can be misinterpreted or used in later proceedings.
Do off-duty comments count?
Yes. Off-duty conduct can still affect the unit climate and trigger EO or UCMJ consequences.
Can I fight a Letter of Reprimand or Article 15?
Yes. You can submit rebuttals, appeal NJP, or demand a court-martial to fight unfair allegations.