Top Military Administrative Separation Board Mistakes
Facing a military administrative separation board is a career-defining moment. Whether the board is based on misconduct, substandard performance, drug abuse, or other allegations, the decisions made in the early stages of the process can determine your discharge characterization, benefits eligibility, retirement status, and post-service opportunities.
Gonzalez & Waddington, Attorneys at Law has represented thousands of military clients worldwide in administrative separation boards, Article 15s, and Boards of Inquiry. We’ve seen how seemingly small mistakes—often made without proper legal guidance—can lead to Other Than Honorable discharges, loss of VA benefits, and irreparable damage to careers and reputations.
Here are the most common and dangerous mistakes we see service members make when facing separation boards:
- ❌ Talking to command or investigators without legal counsel
- ❌ Believing “It’s just administrative” and not taking the board seriously
- ❌ Submitting a rushed or unvetted written statement that gets used against them
- ❌ Failing to gather or present strong documentary evidence (awards, evals, letters, etc.)
- ❌ Not challenging damaging or incomplete information in the government’s packet
- ❌ Failing to call credible witnesses or request relevant records
- ❌ Waiting too long to hire a civilian military defense attorney
Service members are often misled into thinking a separation board is a “formality.” It’s not. These boards can end your career and blacklist you from federal and civilian employment. We treat these hearings with the same precision and intensity as a court-martial—because the consequences are just as severe.
If you’ve been notified of a board, contact Gonzalez & Waddington immediately. We fight to preserve your service, your retirement, and your reputation.
Top Military Administrative Separation Board Mistakes That Can End Your Career
Gonzalez & Waddington, Attorneys at Law defends military service members worldwide who are facing Administrative Separation Boards (ADSEP) and Boards of Inquiry (BOI). With your benefits, rank, and reputation on the line, one misstep can ruin everything. Below, we reveal the most common mistakes—and how to avoid them.
Top Mistakes to Avoid at a Military Administrative Separation Board
1. Failing to Prepare Properly
Many service members walk into an ADSEP board assuming it’s just a formality. It’s not. Without preparing a complete packet of documents, witness statements, and a clear legal narrative, you are at the mercy of the board. Preparation is defense.
2. Not Hiring an Experienced Civilian ADSEP Lawyer
Military-appointed counsel are often overworked and underresourced. They may not have trial experience, and some won’t fight aggressively. By hiring a seasoned ADSEP Board attorney, you get focused legal strategy, custom defense preparation, and someone who understands how to persuade board members.
3. Underestimating Discharge Consequences

An Other Than Honorable (OTH) discharge can strip you of VA benefits, healthcare, education, and job prospects. These decisions affect the rest of your life. Hiring the right lawyer can help you secure a General or Honorable discharge and preserve your future.
4. Choosing a Hyper-Aggressive or Disrespectful Lawyer
Military boards aren’t swayed by courtroom theatrics. Aggressive lawyers who disrespect the board often do more harm than good. What works is a lawyer who is sharp, professional, and respectful—someone who knows how to read the room and deliver facts persuasively.
5. Not Exercising Your Rights
You have rights: to call witnesses, present evidence, cross-examine the government’s case, and submit written statements. Many service members don’t even realize what they’re entitled to. Don’t give up your rights—use them strategically.
Why Hiring the Best ADSEP Lawyer Matters
“It is Department of the Navy (DON) policy to promote the readiness of the naval service by maintaining the highest standards of conduct and performance.”
—SECNAVINST 1920.6D
The best civilian lawyers know how to navigate the maze of military law, interpret obscure regs, and anticipate board strategy. They’ll not only defend your record—they’ll safeguard your future.
- Prevent an Other Than Honorable (OTH) discharge
- Help you retain GI Bill, VA healthcare, and retirement eligibility
- Build a record that supports discharge upgrades if needed later
Understanding the Context: Sexual Misconduct Allegations in the Military
Sexual assault and harassment remain key drivers behind many military Administrative Separation Boards (ADSEP) and Boards of Inquiry (BOI). While many allegations are legitimate, some are exaggerated, retaliatory, or entirely false—often surfacing during breakups, custody disputes, or failed leadership dynamics.
Knowing the data behind these cases helps frame your defense and highlights the need for competent legal representation.
Military Sexual Assault Statistics
According to the DoD’s 2020 Annual Report on Sexual Assault:
- 20,000+ service members reported sexual assault in 2019
- Only 30% of victims report the incident to command or legal channels
- Only 7% of reported cases result in a conviction
“In FY2020, the Department received 7,816 reports of sexual assault involving service members as either victims or subjects.”
—DoD Annual Report on Sexual Assault, 2020

Military Sexual Harassment Statistics
Sexual harassment often precedes or coexists with sexual assault allegations. According to the same DoD report:
- 24% of military women report experiencing harassment
- 6% of military men report harassment
- Over 60% of women who reported sexual assault said they experienced retaliation
“In 2019, 64% of women who reported sexual assault indicated experiencing some form of retaliation for making a report.”
—Military Times
Rank and Power Disparities
Many military sexual assault allegations involve power imbalances. In most cases:
- The accuser is junior in rank to the accused
- The accused is placed under investigation immediately—often before evidence is fully reviewed
- Commanders, fearful of SAPR retaliation or media fallout, initiate ADSEP/BOI prematurely
“The majority of sexual assault cases involve a perpetrator of higher rank than the victim, which can complicate reporting and exacerbate power imbalances.”
—DoD Annual Report on Sexual Assault, 2020
Why These Trends Matter in ADSEP Boards
ADSEP boards often rely on command-level accusations and informal summaries of evidence. Even when there’s no conviction—or no criminal case at all—a commander can initiate separation simply by citing “loss of confidence” or “pattern of misconduct.”
If you’re facing separation for alleged sexual misconduct, the board will hear the entire case, regardless of what the legal system decided. You need a lawyer who can challenge the board’s assumptions, cross-examine evidence, and reframe the narrative before you’re railroaded out of the military.
Hiring the Best Administrative Separation Board Lawyer: What to Look For
Your military career, benefits, and long-term future may hinge on the lawyer you choose. Don’t settle for just any attorney. The stakes are too high. The right Administrative Separation Board lawyer can mean the difference between an Honorable discharge—or an Other Than Honorable (OTH) that follows you forever.
1. Military Law Experience—Not Just Civilian Trial Experience
The Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), DoD Instructions, and board regulations are not taught in law school. Many civilian attorneys don’t know how ADSEP boards actually operate. Your lawyer should have:
- Years of experience specifically defending ADSEP and BOI hearings
- Deep knowledge of AR 15-6, DoD Instruction 1332.14, and service-specific separation guidance
- Familiarity with military culture and command politics
2. Proven Success in Separation Board Defense
Ask any potential lawyer:
- How many ADSEP or BOI cases have you defended in the last 2 years?
- What percentage resulted in retention or upgraded discharge?
- Have you defended cases involving sexual misconduct, performance failure, or misconduct patterns?
A real track record matters. Don’t hire based on salesmanship—hire based on courtroom results.
3. Diplomacy + Command Presence
Boards aren’t impressed by arrogance. What they respect is professionalism, preparation, and facts. The best attorneys walk in calm, firm, and organized. They understand when to push—and when to let the evidence speak for itself. Military boards prefer diplomacy over grandstanding.

4. Transparent, Realistic Communication
Good lawyers won’t overpromise. Instead, they’ll:
- Explain the best, worst, and most likely case outcomes
- Help you prepare documents, witnesses, and defense strategy
- Keep you informed—no legalese, no sugarcoating
Preserving Your Benefits: Why It Matters
An OTH discharge can block you from critical benefits like:
It can also limit your civilian career, prevent access to certain federal jobs, and damage your reputation. Hiring the right attorney isn’t just about the board—it’s about your life after the military.
Fictional Case Profiles: How ADSEP Defense Strategies Work in Practice
Below are real-world-style examples of Administrative Separation Board scenarios we commonly encounter across all military branches. Each profile includes the service member’s situation and how a skilled defense lawyer could respond.
1. Misconduct – Drug Use (Army – Fort Bragg)
Sergeant Davis tested positive for cocaine on a random urinalysis. His lawyer challenges the lab chain of custody and introduces testimony about possible contamination. Witnesses support his performance record. Goal: Retention or General discharge with rehab referral.
2. Fitness Failures (Marine Corps – Camp Pendleton)
Corporal Thompson failed her PFT three times in a year. Defense argues she was recovering from an injury and presents evidence from physical therapy and prior pass scores. Strategy: Retain with a monitored fitness plan.
3. DUI Incident (Navy – Norfolk)
Petty Officer Ramirez received a DUI off base. His attorney presents character statements, enrollment in alcohol counseling, and a clean record prior to the incident. Strategy: Retention or General discharge with continued monitoring.
4. Insubordination (Air Force – Eglin AFB)
Airman Lee allegedly refused an order during a chaotic field exercise. The defense shows evidence of confusion, poor communication, and no intent to disobey. Strategy: No separation—use of counseling or mentorship instead.
5. Fraternization (Army – JBLM)
Captain Wright was in a relationship with an enlisted soldier. Lawyer argues the relationship did not affect unit cohesion or mission readiness. Colleague testimony supports professionalism. Goal: Reprimand, not separation.
6. Unauthorized Absence (Army – Fort Hood)
Private Collins missed his return flight from leave and was marked AWOL for 10 days. He returned voluntarily. Lawyer presents airline documentation, family emergency, and positive service record. Strategy: Retain with NJP or General discharge.
7. Hazing Allegation (Marine Corps – Quantico)
Sergeant Stevens is accused of hazing during a field exercise. Lawyer calls witnesses to show the event was legitimate training—not abuse. Strategy: Retain and reassign.
8. Fraternization (Navy – Pearl Harbor)
Lieutenant Monroe admitted to a consensual relationship with an enlisted sailor. Lawyer shows no impact on command climate and presents flawless record. Strategy: General discharge or retention with reprimand.
9. Social Media Misconduct (Air Force – Keesler AFB)
Airman Carter posted comments criticizing leadership on Facebook. Lawyer argues youthful poor judgment, provides apology, and outlines corrective steps. Goal: Retain or issue formal counseling.
10. Dereliction of Duty (Army – Fort Carson)
Specialist Jones fell asleep on guard duty. Lawyer argues lack of rest due to unsafe scheduling, supports defense with medical evidence. Strategy: Retain and retrain.
Why These Cases Matter
In all of these scenarios, one thing remains constant—the outcome depends on the defense strategy and the experience of the lawyer. The board doesn’t just want to know what happened. They want to know why, how it impacted the unit, and what the service member has done to correct or explain it.
Need Help? Contact Gonzalez & Waddington Today
If you’re facing a Military Administrative Separation Board or Board of Inquiry, your career, benefits, and future are at risk. Don’t go in unarmed. Let our nationally recognized civilian military defense lawyers build your strongest defense.
Call 1-800-921-8607 or visit https://ucmjdefense.com for a confidential consultation. We’ve defended ADSEP and BOI cases in every branch, worldwide.
Administrative Separation Board Mistakes – Frequently Asked Questions
Can I really be separated from the military for a minor incident?
Yes. Even relatively minor infractions—especially when combined with poor evaluations or command pressure—can lead to administrative separation. We’ve seen clients referred to boards over single incidents, personality conflicts, or unsupported allegations. Don’t assume it will “go away.”
Is it a mistake to rely only on my free military lawyer?
Not always, but many military-appointed attorneys are overwhelmed, inexperienced, or unwilling to aggressively challenge command narratives. Hiring a civilian military defense lawyer gives you a second line of attack—and often makes the difference between separation and retention.
Can I just accept a General Discharge to avoid the hearing?
That’s a major mistake. A General or OTH discharge can affect your VA benefits, security clearance, GI Bill, and job prospects. You should never waive your right to a board without speaking to a qualified military defense attorney and exploring your chances of winning.
What’s the biggest mistake service members make at the board?
Underestimating the board. Many service members think, “This won’t get that bad,” or “The truth will come out.” The truth doesn’t matter if you don’t present it effectively. Letting the government control the narrative without a prepared rebuttal is often fatal to your case.
When should I hire a civilian lawyer for a separation board?
Immediately after being notified. The earlier you involve civilian counsel, the more time you have to build a defense, gather evidence, prepare witnesses, and dismantle the command’s case. Waiting too long can leave you unprepared for a career-ending hearing.