The Crucial Role of Family Support in Military Sexual Assault Defense Cases

The Crucial Role of Family Support in Military Sexual Assault Defense Cases

Facing criminal charges under the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), especially in sensitive cases involving Article 120 sexual assault allegations, can be an overwhelming and isolating experience for any service member. In such turbulent times, the support system surrounding the accused—most notably family members—plays an indispensable role in navigating the legal, emotional, and practical challenges that arise.

Michael Waddington, a seasoned criminal defense attorney specializing in military cases, sheds light on this crucial dynamic in his recent discussion. Drawing on his extensive experience, Waddington emphasizes how family involvement can significantly impact both the morale and outcomes for service members facing court-martial proceedings.

Understanding the Emotional Impact on Families

One of the most profound insights Waddington shares is that family members, especially parents, often endure emotional stress equal to or greater than the accused. The weight of serious allegations against a loved one can be heartbreaking and mentally taxing. Recognizing this is vital for service members to foster mutual respect and empathy.

Service members might sometimes inadvertently take their family’s support for granted, expecting financial or emotional backing without proper appreciation. Waddington advises open gratitude and respectful communication to maintain this essential support, which can serve as a cornerstone throughout the legal battle.

Why Early and Transparent Communication is Essential

Delaying or withholding information from family can create additional hardships. Waddington highlights numerous cases where service members tried to manage proceedings alone, only to involve their families post-conviction when appeals are often less effective. Early communication about procedural developments—not necessarily detailed facts—is critical in ensuring families can provide timely and effective support.

Keeping family members informed also helps in managing expectations, preparing for court appearances, and emotionally bracing for possible outcomes. This transparency fosters unity and keeps the accused from feeling isolated.

Family as a Pillar of Legal and Moral Support

Beyond emotional backing, families often assist in practical matters such as organizing legal documents, managing finances related to legal fees, and attending court sessions. Their presence in court not only boosts the morale of the accused but also signals to judges and juries that the service member has a committed support network.

Waddington recounts instances where family testimony or character witnesses have made a tangible difference in sentencing or even case outcomes. Genuine accounts of the accused’s struggles with issues like PTSD or alcohol use post-deployment can humanize the defendant and influence judicial discretion.

Expanding the Definition of Family Support

While parents often play a central role, Waddington reminds us that “family” can encompass a broader network, including spouses, siblings, close friends, mentors, or adoptive parents. Anyone deeply connected to the accused who can provide unwavering support and credible testimony can be invaluable in the defense process.

Maintaining Stability Amidst Turmoil

Legal battles can disrupt the daily lives of service members and their families. Family involvement often extends to managing day-to-day responsibilities like childcare, household chores, and financial obligations, which helps maintain a sense of normalcy. This stability is especially important for those with children, ensuring that their routine and emotional well-being are not compromised during this difficult period.

The Role of Psychological Support

Facing criminal charges, particularly for sexual assault, can take a significant psychological toll. Families can encourage the accused to seek professional mental health support and remain vigilant for signs of severe distress, depression, or anxiety. Emotional resilience bolstered by family support can help service members endure the stress of military justice proceedings.

After the Verdict: Continued Family Support

Regardless of the outcome—acquittal or conviction—family support remains crucial. In the case of conviction, families often become vital in helping the accused reintegrate, whether that involves adjusting to incarceration or rebuilding life post-sentencing. The love and encouragement from family can be a powerful motivator for rehabilitation and recovery.

Conclusion: Family Support as a Strategic and Emotional Asset

Military sexual assault cases under Article 120 UCMJ are inherently complex and emotionally charged. Having a supportive family network is more than just a comfort; it is a strategic asset that can influence legal outcomes and the overall well-being of the accused.

Michael Waddington’s advice underscores a universal truth: the path through military justice is arduous, but it is not one to walk alone. Respecting, involving, and appreciating family members can make the difference between despair and hope, isolation and solidarity.

If you or a loved one is facing military sexual assault allegations, professional legal defense combined with strong family support offers the best chance to navigate the challenges ahead. Gonzalez & Waddington Attorneys at Law specialize in defending such cases nationwide and provide compassionate, expert guidance every step of the way.

Contact Information: For immediate legal assistance, call 1-800-921-8607 or visit ucmjdefense.com.

Full Transcription

My name is Michael Waddington, and I’m a criminal defense attorney. In this video, I want to talk about the role that parents and family can play in a criminal defense case. Many of the people that we represent are in the military, and their families unify and help them out. They’re there to help them financially at times, or they’re there to support them. Support them in terms of giving them the hope, the encouragement, and keeping them in the fight. Because that’s what this is going to be if you’re facing criminal charges in the military. But if you’re a service member and your family’s involved in your case, I want to just give you a few words of advice and caution. Your family, particularly your parents, or your loved ones, are often suffering more than you. You might not understand that until you become a parent, but a mother or father that is going through a court-martial that involves their son or an investigation where very serious allegations are on the line, the parents are undergoing tremendous amounts of stress. You need to understand that and not make their situation worse. So I know a lot of parents will jump in and help out their children or family members or loved ones. And a lot of times the service member takes that for granted. And so I’m advising you to not take that for granted. Let them know you’re grateful. Help out with the fees if you can. A lot of times I’ve seen people that they’re demanding their mother or dad pay the fees and they’re out blowing the money on alcohol and vacations and trips pending their court-martial. Now your parents might not care, but I tell you as a father of two grown children, one of whom served six years in the military, my son, if you’re respectful and you appreciate what they’re doing without making them more stressed out, that’ll go a long way. And that leads me to the next point. Not telling them what’s going on is not an option if you really care about them. We’ve had many cases where the son or daughter tries to go through a military proceeding and doesn’t tell their parents until it’s too late, until the person gets convicted. They try to do it on their own. And then the parents are heartbroken and they end up calling us, asking us, how do we appeal this case? And your odds of winning an appeal are not very good. So get your family involved early. Let them know the basics. Don’t be discussing the details and facts of the case, but keep them apprised of the procedural dates and things that are going on so that they can be there to support you. Because it’s very important, in my opinion, to have family members there to support you. Because if you win, that’s great. If you get convicted of anything, you’re going to need those family members to help you get back on your feet and to help support you, at least emotionally, in getting back on your feet and to love you as their family member or son or daughter. And most good parents or family members will be there for you. They might not approve of what misconduct you may or may not have got into, but they want to be there to support you. Most of the people that we deal with, their families will do anything to help their child, whether they’re guilty or not guilty, because they love them and they want to do whatever they can to help that person out. So keep that in mind and don’t be afraid of, oh, I don’t want to shame my parents. You got to let them know what’s going on, okay? I’d be very upset if I found out my son, when he was in the military, went through a court-martial and did not get me involved. Now, I’m a lawyer and obviously I could help him out, but even if I wasn’t, I would do whatever I could to help my son or daughter out. Th

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